superheroes are loved.... but they also have weaknesses. coz writers+producers consider that the weaknesses part will be appealing to mass audiences. well, i don't blame them.... at least there's something that ppl can relate to... to have a sense of empathy as well.
humans will surely have weaknesses. Flaws within their characters. somehow one way or another... those flaws become part of their nature whether be it confrontational, passive, aggreable, sohai, evasive, always in a state of denial, aggressive, full of criticism or whatever shit u can think of...
my point is, their nature, in a way CAN be understood and it normally shapes their thinking, arguments and policies in life. however, problems start to occur when u know that their nature does not seem to present any solutions at all.
most often than not, these nature of theirs are further amplified by very common factors that become barriers in the harmony of friendship and teamwork. i will call these common factors as 'boundary factors'. these are some that i've identified: (no doubt that there's always more)
- ego
- sloth
- love
- lust
- narcicism
- pride
- ambition
- sensitivity
it's important and imperative that we should understand the nature and the boundary factors that cause conflict between people. once their nature and can be identified... most often than not, a solution can be achieved once both parties understand each other's nature+boundary factors.
problem is; what happens when self is one of the parties involved? coz no matter what, self is still a human with flaws... with own nature, own weakness and own boundary factors.....????
mayb i'll get the answer in my breakfast later.
